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Tips for Pick-Up Artist
There are guys that the first thing they want to do when they meet a woman is show her that they understand GAME.
There they'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how women will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know women are more intimate than guys etc.
This time, I'll refer to that as nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
Let me explain why, and also give you an idea of what to do instead.
Generally, as what I have learn in pick-up, this kind of things will make a very poor conversation topics with women. Especially hot ones.
This might work with the social anthropologist, but not to a woman that any man in his right mind would be attracted to,
Now there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(Oh BTW - if you do happen to meet a girl that likes this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an strategy for attraction for most of the female population)
1. This will make a woman on the defensive. It's exactly like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a big turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. Chances are, the woman's awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters.
This is a concept called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you liked for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
To a woman who spends the most of her time thinking about new shoes, celebrities and her problems with her boss, your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club" it's just too weird and alien for her.
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot woman. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!
3. To a woman that does understand it; you talking about it make it seem like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women tend to also like women, capable of open relationships, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating also get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's a big revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So here's what you should do...
Well - one of the most powerful techniques I use is this:
**Understand society's programming, understand a woman's specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**
Keep your knowledge of reality to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything great, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum)
You're going to see a big change in your game.
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Posted: 10:15 PM, Jan. 7, 2008 |
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Synopsis on the Recently aired Mystery's the Pick-Up Artist on VH1
A few weeks ago Mystery's the Pick Up Artist was aired on VH1. And I wanted to share with you guys my predictions about this recent episode.
What I liked:
Mystery's Ridiculous Outfits. No one can peacock like mystery, hands down. The shows budget really allows for some fancy stuff. I dig it. Peacocking that hard is actually quite a challenge. Don't believe me? Go to your local lair and look at all the guys who try it and get it wrong. It's a trainwreck.
The Students. In general, love the pick up student, they're always so eager to learn, share a common interest with me, and so grateful for the even the smallest amounts of improvement they make. Students are hands down the #1 reason why I do what I do.
The Challenges. It was creative, fun and entertaining. Winner of one contest gets to walk around with a cute puppy in the next. Hillarious.
What I don't like:
J-Dog's hair. I don't think I need to go into this. Looks like the poor dude passed out on a park bench in the middle of a graffiti contest. While there were certainly things about this show that bug the working pick up artist in me, I have to hand it to Mystery and VH1 for presenting the community in a good light to a mainstream audience.
Mystery not knowing why some of his students fail... He's so attached to his structured method, he literally has blind spots as to why his students get blown out... "Yeah he should have used a false time constraint". How about his lame body language, complete lack of masculine vibe and messed up compliance ratios?
Using 4 year old, tired-out material, like "flossing before you brush etc.." Come on, we stopped using that stuff 3 years ago for good reason! Lame, non-sensual conversation that goes nowhere! Sure you'll get the girl to answer your question, but that's not always what I call progress. If you're going to have the guys memorizing routines, why not make them powerful, masculine and effective?
For the four dudes left, here's some predictions:
Alvaro: This guy could become a master pua, but not in a few weeks, and not under Mystery's tuleage. He's got that "inner flame" that drives him to excel at different things, but he's going to need to really work to get consistent, and kill his approach anxiety and fear. He's still got the brakes on. The minute he gets past that, his game will explode.
Joe: I think this guy has got serious potential on the show. He's got the attitude down, but he's the type that will get a certain level of success and become complacent. He'll get a girlfriend and develop his social circle and work off that. Not true master pua material. I just don't see the kind of passion/drive that would carry him to Master PUAdom. He may do well on the show, however, just due to the lack of competition.
Brady: Tall, good looking, fast learner. He's chill, makes steady progress. His use of corny material, and constant second guessing of himself is what's holding himself back. If he just chills out and acts normal he'll be on fire. Again though, like joe, will probably become complacent at a certain level.
Pradeep: Could become a master pua, but he's gotta seriously increase his sensuality. He's in the friend zone still. Doesn't matter if he got that chick's number on the show because that was FRIENDLY number close. He's interesting but... too interesting. It's giving the woman something to be attracted to, but those things are too exterior to get that deep physical attraction that a pua needs to do fast pulls, sensual selection switching, multiple relationship stuff, etc...
In conclusion it was a super entertaining and I'll absolutely be trying to catch another episode if I can.
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Posted: 3:17 AM, Jan. 7, 2008 |
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Tips on How to Approach and Attract Women
What I am about to tell you, might let you think I've lost my mind, but this thing is true...
There are guys that will never be successful with girls.
In fact a lot of them just won't get it.
And it's not because they're not smart enough or somehow defective...
But it's on a subconscious choice, that they have made unknowingly.
I know what you're thinking.
"How can I make sure I'm not one of those guys?"
Am I right?
Well I'm here to help you how. What you will hear from me will probably never be hear from other gurus because it's such a very subtle but very powerful fix that most leave it out of the teaching.
Meet Matt. He's a good guy, likes to be social and has taken a bootcamp with another one of the pickup companies. But sad to say he still doesn't get the success he really longs for; in fact he's not successful at all.
"Vin, why don't you help him!?"
There are a couple reasons why I don't help Matt out. One being he's too set in his ways and is stubborn.
BUT, that's not the real reason. If he was only stubborn I'd have an easy time changing his mind about things.
The real reason why I can't help him is the same reason why he isn't successful with girls.
I've already said Matt's a good guy, but every time we had a conversation I get the feeling like he wants something from me. In fact a lot of our common friends have said the same thing to me about him.
We don't like hanging out with Matt and neither do girls.
Matt always give this vibe of having an ulterior intention. He talks to you like a friend, which is great, but he naturally gives off a vibe telling that he's trying to take knowledge, power and fun from me.
The same thing happens when he's talking to girls. He treats them in a friendly manner and is funny but always gives off this vibe that on the other side he has an underlying intention.
Having intentions with girls isn't a bad thing. If you express your sensual intentions openly they'll accept it, especially if you have tight game. It may even turn them on. IN FACT it will skyrocket your conversion rate if you do it the right way.
But if you hide your intentions you come off as creepy and weird. Girls won't trust you or feel safe being around you alone. You could be the best actor in the world but... THEY WILL KNOW.
Being creepy is the "Death" card in the Tarot deck of your love life. That's a sure way to kill any chance of success you might have.
Now you know what might be going wrong. Let's go fix it..
To start off you need to begin being fun and unattached to the outcome whenever you can. It's not about giving back money. It could be anything from telling a great story to a group or being a great host to a bunch of your friends. It could also be a compliment (in the right way of course) or a tease that will spike emotions in way that is fun to a girl.
Be out there start talking with girls not only because you want to pickup, but because girls are amazing and fun and interesting and wonderful.
Next you need to go is to start being clear about your intentions. This doesn't mean directly telling a girl "The whole purpose of me talking to you is so that I can get into your pants." That's will kill your pickup about instantly as being creepy.
There are small subtle changes you can make in your behavior that will affect how your intentions are perceived and if you're congruent with what you're saying. There are so many small fixes that I could write a novel on them.
Do you want to read a novel about fixing your creepy vibe and then taking the months to implement it that it will require? I don't think so. I wouldn't want to spend the months writing that novel either.
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Posted: 1:41 AM, Jan. 3, 2008 |
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